I know how crazy this is going to sound my FI and sister told me I was out of my mind for even thinking such a thing. I chose my maid of honor not long after he propose but after I gave it a little more thought and really got to thinking on who really know what I like and expect is my sister and knew I couldn't tell my aunt who had already excepted the honor and who I think truly deserves to be my maid of honor but has recently become to busy to do everything I think a maid of honor should and my sister who I normally can't stand but knows what I like has been helping. That maybe I could have 2 maids of honor since I wont have a matron of honor. My aunt who is my maid of honor that I first asked to be my matron of honor isn't married so of course that wouldn't work. And then in my head I came up w because some people have a matron and a maid of honor why can't I have 2 maids of honor. But my sister says that crazy she'll still help with all my planning and everything I asked her to do even though my aunt has the title. At first I told this particular sister I didn't want her as a BM at all. Over the last year we've sort of ironed out all the differences and I felt bad by hurting her feeling cause I always do and asked her to be a BM along w my other sister and his cousin. I've been enjoying discussing my wedding and plans w her it's bring her closer and think she deserves the title too.
Can I have 2 maids of honor or am I crazy?