My fiance laughed off shapewear for himself. We are both plus size and I know he is insecure and I want him to feel amazing on the biggest day of his life as well. Found out he thought "men dont do that" i found a site underworks.com and showed him pictures. He admitted he didnt know those existed and that people use them. So just some advice if any of you are in that situation. Just let him know hes not alone and show him pictures. My FI will now feel good about himself on his wedding day.