We chose Lighthouse View for those wanting ocean front although they requires 2 night minimum in season. Chose Hatteras Island Inn as budget option and/or for one night stays, and Inn at Pamlico Sound for really nice B&B but their availability is limted. We've having Monday wedding and they're catering our wedding so they worked on accomodating some of our guests. HTH
Oh, and just reserved Island Taxi to serve as shuttle for guests to and from hotel. Reserved 6 passenger van for the entire night at half of what mini-bus would have been. Since ceremony and reception are at same venue did not need to transport large party at one time. Tommy, owner was very nice to work with.