My fiance and I are both reserved and don't like being the center of
attention. We are leaning towards inviting only family to our ceremony
(which is still 100 people), and have a larger reception where everyone
would be invited to social hour, sit down supper, and the dance (they
would have separate invites). If you were invited to everything but the
ceremony, knowing the reason is because it was family only.. would you
be offended? Also, do we put on both invites where we are going to be
registered? -- Also, suggestions on wording would be great!