This isnt really a "woe" but more of a question.
I am getting married in Seattle in the summer but majority of our wedding guess are from the mid-west. Because it's a destination wedding I want to give people plenty of time to figure out their plans. Our wedding falls on one of the busiest weekends in Seattle of the year.
We sent our save the dates/invites (one in the same to save costs) back in September. And with our holiday cards (sent right after Thanksgiving) we included a little note with our wedding website and an RSVP reminder.
We still have only received 50 out off 200 RSVP's. I want to send an email to the unaccounted for guests but I don't want to be pushy. When can I reach out?