This may be a bit of an irrational irritation, but I hate when people my age call me honey.
Backstory: Sunday night FI and I met his best friend's new girlfriend. I knew some background about her, but it wasn't really on the top of my mind. (Going through a divorce, married right out of high school to her parents' disapproval, has done drugs, big smoker.) She barely spoke with anyone all night and when we left, I told her it was nice to meet her. AND SHE CALLED ME HONEY. She's a year older than me. I feel bad because she has a smoker voice so it was really deep and it just completely got on my nerves. I'm trying to not make it cloud my judgment of her, but even if my hairdresser/waitress at a restaurant/anyone calls me honey except my SO, it's just not appropriate.
Thoughts? Are there names that people use casually that really bug you?