My aunt, uncle, and cousins RSVPed to the wedding with their meal of choice. They then sent me a message that they won't be coming to the ceremony - just the reception. Am I the only one who thinks this is somewhat rude? Am I crazy thinking that It screams "I don't actually care about seeing you get married, but I'll show up for a free meal and entertainment." Or am I just overreacting?
Re: They're coming to the reception only?
"Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
The fact that these people are family, and that they told you in advance that they would be missing the ceremony, indicates to me that they probably have a pretty good reason for doing so. I would let it go.
The people that just skip the ceremony because they find it boring are generally too rude to let you know about it ahead of time. If they thought that the ceremony was important enough to merit an RSVP to it, they wouldn't just skip it for no reason. I don't know a lot of people that would be all "hey, friend, super excited about your reception, but FYI we won't be at the ceremony because they're totally boring. All we care about is free food and booze and dancing. Your marriage is basically meaningless to us."
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Let it go.
Let it go.