I got off the phone with Allusive about an hour ago and found out that her husband's father had a stroke today. She says it is pretty bad. He is on respirator and the stroke happened close to his brain stem; so they are afraid that even if he does recover that he may not have a very good quality of life. He is only 70 and it was very unexpected. I can't even begin to imagine what she is going through. She says that DH has not even said a word since he arrived at the hospital. It's breaking her heart.
You are all very special to Allusive and she considers you a very important of her community and support system; So I told her that I would let you all know what was going on.
Many thoughts and prayers for comfort and miracles are wanted.
Do you happen to know if Allusive participated in Elfster or a Christmas card exchange? If not- I would gladly share my address with you if you would like to send a physical card or token of thought.
I hope this message finds you all doing well!
(I still think of you all very often and I'm glad that I am connected with many of you on facebook.) Thanks for your T&P for Allusive and her husband! They are both such amazing and loving individuals. It is hard to seem them hurting.
P.S. Allusive isn't saying anything on Facebook, since many family still doesn't know. I told her she could shut down her wall, but she may not have a chance.