Paranoid?

hlvonb · February 2014

So my fiancé's friend who is a groomsman has been a bit of a hassle so far during the wedding planning. Nothing really too terrible but just annoying and makes me roll my eyes.

Well we're getting our tuxedos for the guys from MW and when we first went in there to look and pick out the tuxedo we wanted them to wear, we were told that if all of the guys in the bridal party were fitted and paid the $20 by closing time on January 31st, 2014 then they would all get $50 off their tuxedos and my fiancé would get his tux for 1/2 the original rental price. If anyone had to be refitted later due to losing or gaining weight then they could be refitted for free and not have to pay an additional fee. (Yes I know we still have time for him to get fitted but when we hear / see a good deal that would benefit us we like to take advantage of it).

I was very skeptical so I made the lady write that down and sign it and I had her manager sign it as well.

Anyway, all of the guys thought that was a pretty cool deal so they were all (except for this one) fitted within a month or so after us telling them that. Even my brother who lives overseas got measured where he lives and emailed me the measurements and I covered his deposit fee for him. We didn't say anything until the first of the year and all we said to this groomsman (via FB since our schedules are so different it's very hard to actually have a phone conversation) is hey we just wanted to remind you of the cool deal MW is offering us that ends on January 31st. We would appreciate it if you could get fitted when you have the time or send us your measurements if you know them and we can call MW and let them know and take care of the deposit for you too if that's easier for you.

We didn't hear anything back but we saw he saw the message. Ok. Cool. Then 2 days later my fiancé was on FB and noticed that he couldn't access his friends page because he either deleted his FB page or blocked my fiancé.

I don't know if I am being overly paranoid or not or if we should try to call / text him about what's going on.

What do you think?

pinkcow13 · February 2014

That's pretty weird. I would say definitely try to text or call him. Maybe there is something going on in his personal life, or maybe he just deleted his page. But I don' think there would be any harm in just reaching out to him to see if everything is okay.

hlvonb · February 2014

pinkcow13 said:

That's pretty weird. I would say definitely try to text or call him. Maybe there is something going on in his personal life, or maybe he just deleted his page. But I don' think there would be any harm in just reaching out to him to see if everything is okay.

@pinkcow13

Yeah I thought it was weird and because of the training and the way I have to think while at work, I saw it as a "uh oh" sign. A small or tiny sign but still and I wasn't sure if I was being paranoid or not. When I get home I will see if I can have my fiancé send him text when I get home. I would do it but I dot have his number.

Also, I want to clarify that I don't think there is anything weird or wrong or whatever about someone deleting their FB age but in this situation it seems a bit weird to me.

pinkcow13 · February 2014

Yea I get you, I would feel the same way. It is probably something innocent - he read the message and didn't get around to answering it (I have done that, if say, I read it at work and something comes up), and he decided to deactivate his account for other reasons. The timing is def weird, but it could just be a coincidence. So yea I think your FI should text him just to see how he's doing, since it sounds like there hasn't been much communication lately.

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