This is more for those who do not have children with their ex. How often since you both have moved on do you hear from your ex? If you hear from your ex routinely was the divorce a mutual desire?
The reason I ask is two-fold I'm curious and the other is I need to vent so that I will be more calm when I begin making phone calls.
My ex has been harassing me and stalking me since I left. Granted he is a controlling- attention seeking- drama wanting- psycho but there is a No Contact Order in place, and he has moved on (actually he did that in July of 2008, and I moved out March of 2009) and I moved almost 1000 miles away. Yesterday I received in the mail items he had no right in taking (in July of 2008) and hiding from me legal documents and pictures of my deceased father from my childhood. They were mailed from his place of business - they should have come from an attorney's office; to my home address. The envelope was addressed to my married last name as well. He in his simple way of thinking believes that should he scrawl a note on a pilfered piece of letterhead with attorneys names on it I won't call the court. Obviously he "forgot" who I am or maybe never knew.. anyway I need to make some calls and see what can be done about this. I should probably talk to an attorney locally and file another Restraining Order/ Anti-Stalking Order or No Contact Order in my jurisdiction. It's been almost 5 years and he still refuses to let me be. I have absolutely ZERO interest in him - anything else would be a waste of my precious energy and time.
Done for now... Thank you for listening and if you answer thank you for that too.
UPDATE: The Ex is not a client of the legal offices the letterhead is from, I knew that but I needed to confirm it before I call the court. This just proves how little he knew me.