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NWR: So pissed at H

cookie0803cookie0803 member
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edited February 2014 in Chit Chat
I feel like I'm probably being unreasonable, but I'm so mad at H right now I just want to scream and cry.


This morning I was experiencing some pregnancy complications this morning. It's not the first time, it's been a rough pregnancy. I called my midwife and she told me what I was experiencing was not an ER emergency, but to come in ASAP. FTR, this is her day off and she's coming in just to see me because she's amazing.


I texted H to let him know what was going on, since he is using my car while his is in the shop. This was at 8:00 am. He asked if he should leave work right then. I told him to use his discretion, since he had just gotten there an hour earlier, but I definitely needed him to be home by noon. He said they weren't busy that day, so he would definitely take off before 11. It's now 2:00 and he is just now on his way home, which is his normal end time. He is a manager and not the only one there. Even if it had been a busy day, he could have left, so I'm even more upset that he just chose not to leave and didn't even think to mention it to me. This is so not like him and I don't even know what to say to him when he gets home.
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  • erinlin25erinlin25 member
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    be annoyed, but do not get too angry.  H should have called you at 11 if he knew he was not going to be able leave when he wanted.  H and I own a business and while we have competent employees we can trust when we are gone, there are many times when I think I'll be able to leave early and then something comes up that I have to deal with and the next thing I know a few hours have gone by.  Hopefully he has a good explanation; did you try to call him when he was not home around 11?   
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  • pinkcow13pinkcow13 member
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    I'm sorry. I agree with PP above, it's okay to be annoyed but don't get too angry. Maybe something came up, and he was unable to leave early. Hope you are feeling better now!
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  • cookie0803cookie0803 member
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    I understand things come up, but it's a family business owned by FIL, BIL is co-manager. It was one of those days where they draw the work out so it fills the entire workday. He definitely could have left. If it were any other situation, everything would have been fine, but when it's our baby's life that's at risk and he has my car, it's important to me that he makes the effort. His dad was livid that he didn't mention anything to anyone, because family always comes first in his company, without question.


    I did talk to him at 11, he said he was leaving shortly. By the time he got home, there was a 3 hour wait to see the midwife. He felt so bad for not coming home at that point that I didn't even have to say anything. He said he just didn't think it was that big of a deal because they didn't want me to go to the emergency room. He apologized profusely, said it would never happen again, and the baby is okay, so that's good enough for me. Back to bed rest, though.
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