I am a very non-traditional person. I do not hold well with the mind-set of "Everyone always does it that way, so you have to do it that way." My wedding is October 31st of this year. Our church ceremony will be a very normal ceremony in the aspect that there will be no Halloween costumes or decorations. And my colors are green and silver, so there's no black and orange. My dress, however, is an emerald green dress that's much more styled like a bridesmaids dress. I'm not wearing a veil with it either. From day one of planning, everyone in my family has been yelling at me about how I can't do that. I have to go with a white dress because that's what everyone wants to see. I just smile and say "It's my dress. I'm wearing it. I'm wearing what I want." I've even had someone tell me that for my second marriage, I can wear whatever color I want, but for my first, I need to wear white. Thanks for assuming my marriage will be a failure. I'm not doing flower bouquets, I'm doing wire bouquets. I'm practical and don't see the value in spending lots of money on flowers that are going to die by the end of the week. Wire bouquets will last forever and are not that expensive. My reception will be a costume party. I want people to be able to dress up and have fun. And I want to serve my favorite food in the world, which is tacos. My fiance and I planned out having a nice taco bar set out so people can make tacos the way they want them. Both families are in an uproar over this. We need to serve food that's expected at a wedding, they say. You just can't have tacos, they say. Well why the hell not? I've never been to a wedding that had catered food and thought "This is so delicious, I'd eat it again!" I want good food. My food. I'm just a little afraid I'll be the least favorite in-law on his side of the family. He supports all of these decisions. I know that's what matters, but I wish my family would support them too. It's hurtful that they can't see past what they want and realize that this is my day and they should support me. Am I wrong for ignoring their complaints and doing what I want?