While out with my cousins catching up this weekend and having some drinks we got on the topic of weddings (naturally as there are 3 in my family this summer). My cousin happens to also be a maid of honor in a third. I hadn't known this so I inquired about details on it and that's when her husband let WWIII slip from his mouth:
Cuz' Husband: 'Oh my god you wouldn't believe this! Listen to this, who does this!? She's having her reception on July 4th! A holiday, who has it on the 4th!? And then, we find out it's not a wedding, it's a 'party' to celebrate the wedding they're actually having in May when they Elope!!! (No problem with Eloping). They're trying to justify the July 4th thing by calling it a 'party!' But really, how is it a party when she's asked Liz (cousin) to be the MAID OF HONOR (!) for the thing on July 4th!? We're going because Liz is her friend and agreed to it before we knew it wasn't an actual wedding, but really, just who does that!?!"
Needless to say he was a little veklempt during his entire speech and isn't happy about going to a non-wedding 'wedding' on July 4th. So this is from the mouths of nearest & dearest - who just are too nice to say it to your self - DO NOT HAVE A PPD!