My wedding is coming up pretty soon - 61 days to be exact. My sister is my MOH, and I have 2 bridesmaids: my best friend from college, and a relatively new friend I met at work (over a year). The only one who lives near me is the new friend from work.
A few months ago a good friend of mine asked to throw me a bridal shower (my only shower). She has had more involvement in my wedding than all of my bridesmaids put together. She was just married last May so she may be going through wedding withdrawal. I never asked her to be a BM because, I'm embaressed to say, I wasn't in hers. I wasn't being trying to be childish or petty, but I just thought it would be awkward.
At this point I know it's too late to make any changes. I suppose I feel guilty for not asking her to be in my wedding since she's doing so much for me, especially since my own BM's aren't even throwing me one.
Rant over. Thanks.