So, my FI and I were talking over dinner the other night. He mentioned something about maybe "B Listing" a few people, though he didn't call it that. I told him that that is a big no no. We have since planned the most fantastically horrible wedding ever. Here goes: invitations sent in batches (A list, B list) instructing guests what to wear. The ceremony of course will only have 50 seats for the 100 guests and will start at least half an hour late, because "this is my day and they can all wait on me." A receiving line will follow with FI and myself sitting at our sweetheart table. Guests will file in front of us and must present us their gifts (because everyone knows they are a REQUIREMENT, not freely given). We will open the gift in front of the person/couple/family (who should have brought something to our potluck reception as well) and rate the gift on a a scale of 1-10. All like numbers will then be sat together. FI and I will then cut the cake and eat it, because there will only be one cupcake and no guests get cake. Yay! So glad we have everything planned now!

(For the record, the only statement that rings true from the above is that we will have a sweetheart table) So now, what was the worst "feature" you've ever had to deal with at a wedding?
Re: Reception Ideas
Don't forget to have your guests pay for their own meals at the rehersal dinner- that happened at a wedding and RD I recently attended. I wasn't in the wedding party, but was good friends with bride and was a last minute invite to RD. She's a total sweetie, (her mom was the one who directed the staff to split up bills) so I didn't hold it against her.
Fortunately that gave us extra time to work on my BM dress, which groom's mother hadn't actually finished in time. I went down the aisle with safety pins holding one side of my dress up. Good thing there was a massive bow to hide them!
About the bouquet toss: Thank you for reminding me about this. I do plan on tossing mine since I will have some young unmarried girls who I think would like it, but I am going to remember to instruct my MC ahead of time not to force anyone out onto the floor. If it's just a bunch of kids and young teens who run out on the floor that's fine by me.