Is it wrong for me to feel irritated and like no consideration was taken? Here's the situation.....my fiancé and I got engaged, and finalized our date 3 months later. 4 months after we had our date set, my step-brother got engaged, and him and his fiancé decided to set their date 4 weeks before ours!! Am I wrong for feeling like they just had to get married first and the fact they chose a date 4 weeks before us is rude and inconsiderate?? Help!!