I am in the process of choosing my MOH. I have 3 best friend of whom I thought of choosing 2 to be my MOHs. One of them has been my neighbor/bff/sister forever and I thought she would be the witness. She recently started dating her first BF and she disappeared from the face of the earth, started blowing me off in general, and even lying to me. This hurt me a lot. Well since she has been like that iit has been impossible for me to even talk to her and thus I am unsure on whether I should still have her as my MOH or just a BM so she doesnt feel pressured or anything. My other BFF is the kind of friend who dissapears whenever she starts dating a guy and only calls or contacts when she needs something, is upset, or most of her other friends blow her off. Fi doesnt think she deserves to be my MOH. i am conflicted with this and would appreciate some input. I am still leaning towards having them both be MOH but having "sis" be the witness (if i can find her)