Ahead for an invitation???? With the RSVP due 5 weeks before the wedding. No, I have not done this, but I received one today. Both FI and I are in the wedding so obviously we know what we are doing 14 weeks from now, and the Bride's rationale was "peace of mind from an early head count". Yeah, I seriously doubt that will happen. Also, neither of their last name's have been on the STD or the invitation (they listed themselves as hosts on the invite), is that weird to anyone else?
Oh, and the registry info was included with the invitation. (This is the same friend who is making people sit on blankets, asked for money & gift cards on the wedding website, continued to spell my FI's name wrong even though they've known each other 10+ years, and on and on...can't wait to see how the day comes out!)