OK, sorry ahead of time, but I need to vent a little. First, one of my BM is constantly bringing up my shower. It is supposed to be a surprise. However, she keeps texting me things about the invitations were ordered, they arrived & she can't wait to show them to me in several months, she was talking to FSIL about crafty things, etc. I pretty much just ignore it, but it is just getting to the point of being annoying. I know I should tell her to stop bringing it up, but I don't want to come across as a bitch. But really, the surprise is going to get blown if it keeps getting brought up, because something will slip. She already let slip that my MOH is doing the paper goods, to which I said, "oh, so it is at a place where plates & such aren't provided". Then from talking to someone else who knows about it, I think I've figured out when it is. Not an exact date, but month. That was purely by accident.
Then my mom messages me that someone she invited, doesn't want to sit with someone else that is invited. And this person won't come if that is the case. My response was that it is too early to deal with drama like this. It clearly isn't important to be at my wedding if the person is threatening not to come over their seat. Fine, don't come is my thought. Be adults. Arrghhh!!
I can't deal with 7 1/2 months of this, yet I don't want to be a bitch.