I'm trying to find my shoes, and I just can't find even a contender. My FI is 6'1, and I'm 5'6" so I need a little height. I haven't wore heels in years (and even those were maybe like 3 inches) so I don't want to go over 3 inches and have something to hold it on my ankle so I don't slip out of it lol. But I gotta be comfortable enough to move and dance and don't think a spike is gonna work. I would bust my face. This is so hard.... any shoe lovers want to send me shoes you love that fit this?