Yesterday I got an email from the team mom for Fi's son's baseball team. When we registered him FI listed me as the main point of contact and put stepmom as the relationship. The team mom just emailed asking for FI and his ex wifes email because she needed to make sure DS's real parents were included in team emails. I managed to avoid being snarky and simply sent FI's email and told her I don't know his ex's email. Team mom immediately followed up with FI about getting his ex's email because "it's only fair she knows when her son is playing". FI played dumb and said he didn't know it.
This morning FI got a ton of team emails: schedule, snack sign ups, fundraising etc. I checked the distro list and every player has both parents included on it, but DS only has his dad listed. I know it's dumb to get my feeling hurt over this, but I've spent almost two years raising him yet am apparently not worthy of being included on the parent email, but his mom who calls one every few months HAS to be on it?