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Bummed about DH leaving

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No, not that kind of leaving (I just realized when writing it that it sounded like 'leaving me') but leaving for the weekend. He's up to PA for a family reunion, I'm stuck down here. Normally I wouldn't care, free weekend to myself, but something just seems weird about it. I guess because we just got married a few weeks ago and it's our first time apart since then. With the wedding and honeymoon, we couldn't afford for both of us to go.

Plus I'm a big baby when it comes to planes so I'm sitting here at work worried over his flights. I hate flying. But, my aunt invited me to Animal Kingdom tomorrow with her pass so that'll keep me occupied for sure! I guess there is an upside to being without DH for a few days.
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Re: Bummed about DH leaving

  • bbyckesbbyckes member
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    I think that's sweet that you feel "different" about him leaving this time.  It's hard to imagine me feeling that way about FI right about now - in my head I'm like, "Isn't there some place you can go?" lol
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    Oh there are plenty of times when I want him to go the hell away and give me some peace (his damn video games are enough to make me want to toss the TV sometimes). But I don't know, it just feels odd that he's going up there. At the same time, it gives me a strange little thrill knowing that he now has a shiny new ring to tell all the single girls out there that this man's taken.
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  • deepcovejackiedeepcovejackie
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    I thought you meant leaving (permanently) at first, and I was thinking, hm, she's just bummed?  Glad all is well.  I don't sleep very well when FI is out of town so I can relate.
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User]
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    Yeah it's hard for me to sleep too. Our house is old and creepy, makes lots of weird noises. And we're in the woods so of course I imagine all sorts of horror scenes every time I hear something on the deck (usually one of the dozens of raccoons or stray cats running around). Man, I'm kind of a wimp I guess.
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  • deepcovejackiedeepcovejackie
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    Yeah I'll join you in the horror.  My dog will suddenly growl for no reason while the house is **dead**quiet.  It's then that a realize that I have the imagination of a 10 year old.

    It doesn't help that my yard is kind of like Jurassic Park, all big trees, without a neighbour in sight.  Eeep.
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  • blinkeysgirlblinkeysgirl
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    I know how hard it must be without him around. I haven't seen FI since feb 26th and still wont for another few weeks. We talk on the phone contastly, but it's not the same.
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