So FI's son was at our house last night and FI was on the phone with the priest who was previously officiating our wedding. I overheard FI tell the priest we would still like to have him at the wedding. I didn't know he was still going to invite him and I had already made the invitations and addressed all of them. When he got off the phone I told him I wish he would have told me so that I could have had an envelope addressed for him with the others. He said it's no big deal, he knows all the details so we don't need to send him an invitation. I said yes I do because I need a RSVP card from him and he needs the info in writing. FI's son (who is 29) says "yeah girls are all about the RSVP's. I got invited to my friend's wedding and I told her I was coming when I saw her, but she said I still have to send in the RSVP card. I don't understand why". Ugh!!! This thinking is why so many people don't send in RSVP cards. They just don't think they're important or they don't understand what goes into planning a wedding.
There isn't a question here, just a rant on my part about how oblivious people can be about RSVP's.