Hey fellow brides/brides-to-be:
I have a couple of issues I'd like some advice on. I have a very opinionated, controlling future MIL. She expects to get her way a lot AND is stingy.
Most of our wedding finances have been settled by my fiance, me and my parents, but his parents aren't offering a dime to help out. WORSE YET--they are demanding open bar, more guests and more this and that. We can't even afford a honeymoon.
I've sent her hints and my fiance even talked with her about things, but won't budge. Now we're close to our wedding date (2 months) and we're stuck with a 2,000 bill we're struggling to pay for. HELP?!
Also--I know this is a wedding post, but also ties along with kids. To make a long story short, my fiance's little brother died when he was 3 suddenly and terribly and they were very close. It was a shock to the whole family and is still painful to bring up his name today. She wants our first born boy to be named "that name" in honor of him. My fiance and I said maybe middle name because the hurt is still too strong to bare to hear every day and she is not satisfied.
I'm struggling with this woman and getting her way. Advice?