The checklist from the knot keeps you on track with the wedding as an event, has anyone come across a checklist that keeps you aligned with your wedding as a document? The ceremony is a good start, but there is not a whole lot out there about your post wedding planning. I know the last thing you want to think about is the technicality of your wedding, especially after spending all that time on details. I just know I would like someone to put more information or add a category to the wedding planning process that covers post engagement and bridal. One issue ( which was my cause for this discussion), that I came across was getting your marriage license in one state and having your ceremony in a different state. I had planned on getting our marriage license 3 months before the wedding. That would fall in the checklist time frame of after engagement party and bridal shower activities, not really pre-wedding and too late for post wedding, of course depending on the ceremony. Our ceremony requires a marriage license before ceremony can proceed, and the marriage license could not be more than 90 days. Follow along in this discussion to offer more insight or learn more information about "Post Engagement & Bridal Planning".