I am so frustrated right now!!!
Why can't this shower or no shower mess be figured out. She doesn't want one. I do because I have been a bridesmaid 80-11 times and I threw them multiple times and I feel like it is my turn. She says no.... then yes.... then no.... then yes but don't ask my bridesmaids to participate because they have to travel to New Orleans.
MIND YOU THAT her bridesmaids only live in HOUSTON. We are in Austin. 2.5 hours away?!?!??! AND ITS ONLY 2 PEOPLE! the rest of them live here in Austin. One is her Aunt and the other is her cousin. I understand her cousin. She is 20 years old and gets confused by everything wedding. But her 35 year old Aunt, IMO should know what the role of the Maid of Honor is... She seemingly only wanted the title, but doesn't want to be active in anything. She doesn't communicate when my bridesmaids reach out to try to plan dress shopping days or anything.
I'm frustrated so frustrated, but I finally said bump the shower! it isn't worth having headaches, arguments and all of that. It always leaves me feeling selfish. My bridesmaids are ready to plan and are requesting lists and all on board and expecting these events. But I guess I just give in and say no...