So my sister is having her wedding in a few months. For the past year and a half i was the only one in her bridal party as her MOH. Now as of 2 months before the wedding I have been informed that there are 6 other "bridesmaids" that have been added. Only one of the six girls is listed on her website as HEAD bridesmaid. WTF I am her MOH and have been this entire time. This makes me feel like she never wanted me to actually be her MOH but she really wanted her friend who she considers her best friend. If there were the case I would have wanted to know upfront and not just have been given the title "because it was the right thing to do". Her shower is 1 WEEK away and these girls have not done one thing for the shower, bachelorette party or wedding (which they are not even attending because it is a destination wedding, but will be having a second wedding 1 month later and they will wear longer versions of my MOH dress). I am truly fine with her having bridesmaids I am not find with one of them being called Head bridesmaid and finding out 1 week before her shower. People do not just get titles of bridesmaids they have to actually perform a role in order to have that title I just do not get it! Am i over-reacting?
