My MOH is throwing me a lingerie shower in a couple weeks and I gave her a list of about 15 people to invite, and said the location was up to her. She chose a cute place with a rooftop patio. I asked her about the menu, and she said that it is up to the guests to pay/order their own food/drinks (the venue is a restaurant). I am a little taken back by this, because I think if you invite people to a shower, then food/drinks should be provided and then if they would like something else that's not provided, they can purchase it on their own. Am I wrong to think this?
Also, I have a really hard time with this, because when I was her MOH, she gave me a list of 75 people to invite to her Wedding Shower (guys and girls). I planned the entire Shower, as I was the only person in the bridal party. I also footed the entire bill on my own for the whole thing. I know you don't do something for somebody and expect the same in return, but I just feel like this is not right! Am I just expecting too much here?