My SO and I want a smaller, more intimate wedding, but we both come from gigantic families. Considering
ONLY parents, grand-parents, siblings, aunt and uncles, and first
-cousins...we've already reached 100 guests on our preliminary guest list. My family is up north in New Jersey. His family is in Cancun, Mexico. We decided, to be fair, that getting married where we live, in Florida, was probably the best bet. We don't want any drama over making one side travel, but not the other (
somebody would complain). I know it's likely not all of them will be able to make it, given that there will be some travel involved, but how do we even begin to cut down on the list? That list of 100 doesn't even consider some of the first cousin's children...and I assume, they won't travel without their kids, but we do really want them there. That list of 100 includes NONE of our personal friends outside of the family either. We'd like it to, but honestly, I think we'd be happier with a wedding of
maybe 50 guests.
The logistics of this just seem impossible. Thoughts? Advice? Tips? Experiences to share? Ultimately, we know it's our day and we'll have to choose the people closest to us. It's just really difficult to pick and choose, coming from families this size. I really don't want to offend anyone or make them feel left out.