To make this very short, a friend asked me and three others ladies to be her bridesmaids. She likes to post on Facebook about her August wedding. In the past few days she made a few comments about what we are suppose to wear, so her cousin suggested that we dress in the most awful things to make her look "flawless".She laughed then joked about us some more. The more she post about this wedding, the more it is feeling like we are just props. She never asked us for budgets, she is planning her own bridal shower for next week, her Miami bachelorette party in July, and assigning us the amount of money we are expected to contribute to her festivities.
While I am her friend, I can't be apart of her monstrosity of a wedding. I've told her about the Knot and how to do things correctly. Her wedding is an embarrassment: cash bar, people paying their own tabs at the restaurant reception, telling who isn't invited on Facebook. I just can't deal with her, one part of me wants to go to see how with people react but the other part is asking would I be wrong for bowing out?
Live fast, die young. Bad Girls do it well. Suki Zuki.