Ladies: I need an unbiased opinion, so hopefully you all can give me that. I just had a BM email me, telling me exactly who she wants at her table at the reception. My first thought was "Whaaat..." but the context is that she has a lot going on, life stress-wise, and is very concerned about how her family will respond to the person she is bringing to the wedding. One side of me is trying to remember that, be considerate, and support this person who (obviously) is important to me. The other side of me thinks that the way to deal with that is not to instruct the bride on how to manage it (and I have a lot on my plate too....), and if it's causing such angst then maybe it's not really such a great idea to bring this person (and the ensuing drama).
Am I being self-centered bridezilla here?