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Cancelled Engagement

Unfortunately my wedding has been cancelled. Thank you all for your wonderful advice and information when I was still planning. Things just did not work out. It turns out I am happier than I have ever been and feeling much better about myself since the split. All is for the best!
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  • So sorry to hear about that, but I'm glad you are happier!
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  • Oh and if anyone needs anything for their upcoming special day look for me posting on the classifieds board!
  • So sorry to hear things didn't work out but glad to  hear you are happier in the end.  Good luck to you!
  • It's never easy but I'm so glad that you are happier in the end and feeling good about yourself! That's what's important. *hugs*
  • So sorry to hear about your cancelled engagement, but I'm glad you're happier in the long-term!
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    I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'
  • I'm really sorry about that but am glad you are feeling good about it. I've been there. All the hugs. 
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  • Im so sorry to hear but glad you will be happier long term.

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  • I'm so sorry to hear that but as long as you are happy, that's all it matters.
  • I'm sorry to hear that, but it sounds like you made the right decision for you.
  • I hate to hear that :( I'm sorry that happened, but I'm glad you're happy and that you made the right decision. Best of luck and lots of hugs.
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  • I'm so sorry Fitz. Sending you all the hugs. I'm glad you did what was best for you.
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  • buy yourself something nice! you deserve it!
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  • buy yourself something nice! you deserve it!
    Once I sell all the wedding stuff you bet I am buying a car! lol
  • ShallowSeasShallowSeas member
    Sixth Anniversary 1000 Comments 500 Love Its First Answer
    edited April 2014
    You ladies are too sweet! Sometimes you don't realize how much someone is dragging you down into the depths until you finally come up for air.

    When you're making the wrong choice your heart eventually goes:

    NOPE NOPE NOPE

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    @polarbearfitz I could not agree more! I've been there.  Its amazing how much happier you can be WITHOUT someone in your life, even when you thought you were happy with that person. I wish I had been as smart and strong as you before my first marriage.
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  • @PolarBearFitz I would suggest the 2013 ford fiesta! Its cute has great gas milage and an awesome size trunk! Plus since its smaller you can get the compact parking! haha
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  • Aww sorry to hear you wedding is off, but that's great that you're now happier!  Best of luck to you!
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  • I'm sorry to hear that this but am happy to hear that you feel good about it!! 
  • Big hugs!  Kudos to you for making the right decision for you!  
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  • I am sorry about your cancelled engagement, but glad to hear that you are feeling better without him.  
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  • Unfortunately my wedding has been cancelled. Thank you all for your wonderful advice and information when I was still planning. Things just did not work out. It turns out I am happier than I have ever been and feeling much better about myself since the split. All is for the best!
    So sorry to hear this but I'm glad you are feeling better!

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  • ElcaBElcaB member
    2500 Comments Fifth Anniversary 500 Love Its First Answer
    I'm sorry to hear this, but am happy you are in a good place! 
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  • I'm so sorry about your news. It's great that you're feeling better!
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  • Happy you made the right decision for you! It is very brave to cancel an engagement- many people keep trying to push that little nagging "this isn't right"voice inside down down down but you can't do that for the rest of your life.

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  • phiraphira member
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    I'm not really sure I'm sorry to hear this, not because YAY CANCELLED ENGAGEMENT, but because you're so relieved and so much happier. If it was a good thing to end the engagement, then I'm not sorry. I am sorry about the stresses of handling a cancelled wedding, though; that's rough.
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    now with ~* INCREASED SASSINESS *~
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  • I met a woman when I was in hospital some years ago. We stayed friends for ages, and would visit each other regularly. On my last visit with her, she told me to always be careful and listen to myself instead of others, then confided in me that she knew the morning of her wedding that she was making a mistake, but told herself she had to go through with it because it was a "done deal". Because she didn't listen to her inner voice, she ended up completely miserable, married to a man who didn't take her concerns seriously and saw her only as food-and-baby machine.

    It can't have been easy, but I'm so glad you made this difficult decision and that you're in a good place with it.
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  • Yaaa for more happy days in your future.
  • Best wishes to you (but stick around and keep us sane :) )
  • I'm sorry things didn't work out as planned, but I am glad that you're heading on a path that leads to your happiness. Hoping for many bright and joyous days ahead for you!

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  • Sorry to hear you had to make such a difficult choice, but it sounds like it was certainly the right one! I'm glad that you have found hapiness again!

     







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