We are paying for the flights of FHs family to come to the wedding, they simply wouldnt be able to come if we didn't
For obvious reasons we havent told people, some people know but others dont. However a cousin of mine has found out and I got an email today saying that they thought this wasnt fair and how we should pay for their travel and accomodation as well.
I know they are out of order (or at least think that they are)
but what do I say