Should I feel alittle irked that my FI SIL asked him to bring her young children when I said I didn't want youngs kids to her? My FI wants his 3 yr niece to be there because of family but I told him if I invite all little kids then they all get to come. That it's rude to invite some but not all. I get it it's family I just don't want kids running around everywhere. Especially when there are other events going on besides my wedding.