I've settled on 3 girls who I want to have on my side, and my fiance has chosen his brother and childhood friend, but is struggling with a 3rd. His next closest friend is actually MY cousin's husband - we've spent quite a bit of time with them as couples, and he wants to ask him - but I wasn't planning on having my cousin. At first I thought that there was no way this could happen gracefully and he'd need to choose someone else - but now that I think about it, he should be able to have his buddy - I'm just not sure how to broach the subject with my cousin. Can anyone think of a diplomatic way to handle this?
On another note - my fiance's brother (his best man) is a photographer and wants to do photos - which he will, and my cousin is also a great photographer and said she can pick up whatever his brother won't be able to do. So she already has something to do that day, which I'm hoping helps with the slightly awkward situation.
Before anyone mentions it - I KNOW the sides don't have to be even, but I would really, really like them to be.