I asked 6 girls to be BMs, i know at least 3 are definites. But my FI predicts only one of the guys he asked to be a GM will actually be able to do it. He might still ask his Dad to be Best Man. IDK if he is going to still have my brother in the wedding and this is a sore spot for him so I really don't want to bring it up. I just know he will feel really lousy with 1 or 2 guys by his side and me with 6 girls. IDK what to do, he & I agreed we don't want anyone giving speeches or readings during the ceremony, both of us find that boring and barely tolerable during weddings. Its a DW and I still don't know for sure who is going to be able to really be in it. So far they've all committed but that could change. Do I wait and see if the girls I expect to drop off do or... idk. Any advice is much appreciated.