Backstory: My BF and I have been together for as long as my friend and his fiancee, we have been living together since September 2013, and my friend knows that we live together and has met my BF. I am also friends on Facebook with both the bride and the groom, so both of them can see who I am in a relationship with. When my friend messaged me the date on Facebook in February so that I could make travel plans, I asked him if BF was invited as well. He told me "Of course! You didn't even have to ask!". So, we went ahead with making travel arrangements (the wedding is on the other coast from where we live).
So, the invite came in the mail this weekend. It was only addressed to me. I know it is an etiquette faux pas, but was going to give them the benefit of the doubt, and hoped to see both of our names on the inside. Wrong again! Not only is his name not there, but nowhere on it does it even say that I have a plus one! In fact, the only place my name even shows up is on the envelope.
Needless to say, I am not a happy camper. Why is it so hard for people to research proper etiquette, especially when many guests are OOT?