Me and my FI are having a Beauty and the Beast themed wedding. He actually chose the theme and since we both love the movie I went along with it.
Anyway for our first dance we will be dancing to the Celine Dion version of Beauty and the Beast. When his mom found out that we were using that song she was upset and was saying how wrong it was and that people would think I was calling her son a beast. I pointed out that her son picked it and she continued on about how people will judge it. Later that day she saw me and FI practicing our dance (it is choreographed) music going and she burst into tears saying how beautiful it is and that she takes back anything she said. Yay win for us.
The point of this post is no matter how different or unique or whatever your ideas are or how judgy people are when they hear your plans when they see them the day of and how happy you are they wont care anymore.