Isn't the purpose of having bridesmaids typically used for a wedding ceremony? My sister is having a destination wedding with just me as her MOH and then having 6 of her friends be bridesmaids at a separate reception in July. I am so confused as to why they are even needed. They will not witness any wedding or ceremony as the July reception is just a party. These girls were asked formally to be bridesmaids with shirts made my the bride but were not invited to the actual wedding. My question is is this normal? If it is normal who the hell would purchase a bridesmaid dress, get their hair and make-up done, attend a shower and only help during the opening of the gifts, and barely help with a bachelorette party?