Ok, so my MOH has decided to plan her wedding for the week after mine, after accepting the position of MOH. Personally, I feel like she is going to be too busy planning her own wedding to participate in mine. Am I being too mean when i think about replacing her? Or should I wait for her to realize she can't do both? I say can't because she is bi polar and doesn't handle stress very well. Maybe she should be a BM instead?
On another note, the same girl wants me in her wedding. Which is country themed, cowboy boots and lacey frilly dresses and hats and all. I have never owned or worn a pair of cowboy boots (cowgirl?), and definitely don't think it is fair to have to pay for the $200 pair she wants us to wear. I love her, but I feel like she's doing too much. In my wedding, the dress is required, and the shoes optional. If you don't like the shoes I chose, feel free to get/wear a black pump that you already have. Hair and nails up to them, but I'd prefer nails the same color. So if I need to go buy a bottle of nail polish and we all share it, fine

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Any ideas on what I should do in these situations??
Any help is appreciated!
~Aries
Re: Problems w/ MOH...
As PP said, you get one day, she ges one day. Replacing her would be a friendship ending move. i am in a wedding two weks before my own wedding, and that bride is in my wedding two weeks after her own (and the day after she gets back from her HM). Neither of us is concerned about this in the least.
She shouldn't require you to buy a $200 pair of shoes that you'll never wear again. If she wants you in boots, she shold either be buying them for you or at a MINIMUM considering the cost of the boots in with the dress in the budget that you gave her (so if you said "i can spend $200" that would have to include dress and shoes and she can pick each accordingly. Though from the sound of it i'm guessing she hasn't asked for anyone's budget at this point).
Same nail color? seriously? There is almost NO chance of anyone noticing the BMs manicures at your wedding. let them do whatever they want to.
"Love is the one thing we're capable of perceiving that transcends time and space."
You're in the wrong expecting your BMs to have match nail polish (I've never once noticed a bride or BM's manicure) and your friend is wrong to require $200 boots.
As for the cowboy boots, tell her you simply can't afford them and won't purchase them.