My parents along with a few other family members put down a deposit at a restaurant for my engagement party but they told me I had to be in charge of the planning and inviting guests. If my family is paying for it but I am doing most of the work (which I don’t mind) is that considered tacky or not proper etiquette? I’m technically not hosting my own party, they are just giving me the liberty of inviting my closest friends and fiancé’s family.