So this is just a little snark because I have rolled my eyes so hard today I'm surprised they are still in my head. In March I was talking with FSIL A and FSIL B (both BMs) and long story short FSIL A tried to convince me to have a "Bridesmaids Dinner" at her house sometime around the wedding so she could get to know the other BMs better. I said that I thought that it was a nice idea but that between the shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner and wedding day, there was a good amount of time to spend together (all the BMS attended the shower, are planning on attending the bachelorette "party" at a nearby spa and are attending the rehearsal and RD - yay! and WOW!).
I rank really high on the introvert scale, and while I love my friends and family, it is very easy for me to be overwhelmed and overstimulated, so the thought of ANOTHER wedding-related activity makes me want to curl up in a hole somewhere and hide. I'm normally really bad with putting my foot down and being direct, but I specifically told her that I was not comfortable with adding any more activities which people might feel obligated to attend. YAY for boundaries! And I thought it was over.
Today, almost 2 months later, FSIL A sent out a facebook message to all of the bridesmaids asking who wanted to join her for a bridesmaid's dinner the week of the wedding. I almost lost my shit. I still am not calm enough to say anything because I was so proud of myself for putting my foot down the first time around that I am genuinely hurt she would go against my wishes and try to plan another activity the week of the bach party, RD, and wedding.
Am I being ridiculous for getting upset about this?
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