Me and my husband are in the process of beginning planning on our vow renewal. This will actually be our wedding verses our parents wedding. We didn't invite our friends. We only had our family and people from church which knew the in laws which meant a bunch of old people. So, this will be all about us and our little family. (we have a seven year old little girl).. We recently separated in August 2013 and recently got back together in December 2013. We were married in May 2000. So, I decided to do it after our wedding anniversary.. Im wanting to have it outside at our house because our house is beautiful not to mention free to use.. We have three acres and pool. So, I have the location. I have the colors.. now comes the other details.. I didn't really have much of a choice the first time. im going to assume 50-100 people. I have started looking at dresses. I want a short dress this time.. (not to mention I am probably 75 pounds lighter this go round verses our first wedding).. I don't want any negative comments. I read some and people said this isn't a wedding but in reality it is. just because you don't have a piece of paper this go round you are still publicly committing to your spouse in front of your friends and family and its important for individuals to know this it also can help heal a broken marriage if you are trying to work on it.