My wedding is in six weeks, and no one has volunteered to plan my shower (which I know sounds so bridezilla-ish, but just hear me out- I really am a very laid back person and bride!!). None of my bridesmaids have ever been married, so this is not at all about me expecting them to plan it or being mad that they didn't. Honestly, I really thought I could do without it, but as the date gets closer I am realizing that it is a memory that I don't want to miss out on. Two of them live out of town and the two that live here are very busy. Mostly, I just don't know what to do. I would totally plan my own shower, except that I just read a bunch of posts that say that that is really inappropriate. But really, the point of a shower to me is to have all my girlfriends together- I don't want gifts! It's not about gifts. It's about the people. So my question is how can I just get everyone together, be able to coordinate it myself and have a grand ol' time? Maybe I won't call it a shower- I could call it a "Pre-wedding Girls Get-together" or something? I really could use some input.