I was talking to my mom last night. She asked if I sent out invites yet and I said no, I'll get them out soon though. She then lectured me on how I better hurry up and I explained well, you aren't really supposed to send them til 6-8 weeks and I'm sitting at 7. Even if I get them out a touch late, I don't really care because we pretty much know exactly who's coming and everyone knows all about it anyway. But in any case, I'm still in the clear anyway.
Then i see this facebook post from someone else that's getting married: "Two months from today!! Please keep sending in the RSVP cards! Thanks!"
Bitch, you are just making things more difficult for yourself because no one knows if they can attend an event two months ahead of time. And don't nag your guests over it.
But apparently between my mom and this girl and zillions of newbs around here, I am the only person that doesn't think they need to go out months in advance.