Kind of an etiquette question-
Short version is that I got married 5 years ago and now, after a lot of tumult, death, pg losses, divorce, I found a *wonderful* guy and am getting married again 6/14. My sis was MOH last time too and I had all the "parties" etc. This time she decided I didn't need them (she is not girly etc) and so my FI's aunt threw a shower, a friend organized a tea for my bach party. I bought my sis her dress since money was tight when the order needed to go in. Was going to give her a gift card for the great inn we stay at near her house when we visit but now I wonder if I need to? I bought her and my jr bridesmaid monogrammed robes for the day and jewelry as well. Thoughts? Thx!