My fiance and I are hoping to have a MAX of 8 people standing up with us. We would prefer it to be smaller even than that. In order to make this happen, I have decided not to ask my sister, sister-in-law, brothers and brother-in-law to stand up. They are all 10 years older than me, with kids, etc. I know they will understand, but I am worried about my mother being disappointed.
I am looking for some other way to have them be an integral part, but not officially be in the wedding party. One idea we expressed was having my siblings be a part of the wedding processional after parents and before wedding party. Has anyone done something similar? Their official titles will not affect pictures, just what happens during the ceremony.