So one would think that a website devoted to weddings would be the mecca of special snowflakes where every detail of everything is SOOO important. But you guys have taught me that nothing besides becoming husband/ wife matters. When I started my planning, I was similar mindset to many- dress has to be perfect, bridal party has to be perfect, decorations, food, entertainment- it all has to be "perfect". Not that I was a bridezilla in any way, I just wanted everything to go smoothly. I'm now 3 months away from the wedding and I can honestly say that I don't give a shit anymore. I don't care how many million things go wrong- I just want to be married to him! People ask me how the planning is going or if I'm excited and I just say eh whatever, don't care. And they look at me like I'm nuts.
Like I was thinking about it and why is it such a big deal?! I think people who have kids would likely tell you the day the child was born was the best day of their life. But you don't have a professional photographer in the hospital room, you don't have your hair & makeup done with trials leading up to it and a bedazzled johhny, you don't have your friends make you crafts for the hospital room. Nothing about giving birth is "perfect" yet it's the best day of people's lives. So I'm excited about the wedding of course but I am so grounded to it just being another great day and not the "biggest, most special day ever". I can't say with confidence that I would have come to that point without reading all your posts, so thanks!! 