What would be the appropriate thing to do regarding something that comes up that you can not control and have to pay for that now interferes with all the planned/deposits of the wedding? What about having to now cut the guest list after Save the Dates were mailed?
This is not a for sure thing until after today. My soon to be step son got into major trouble and may be going to a program we will have to pay for and it will put a hardship on us with money. We already talked about cutting out limos, and me not paying for the girls' hair. To Clarify on the hair I'm not making them get it done nor asking for any particular way.
I'm really stressing out. Not to mention this may cut into bills and SO could loose his car so we don't loose the house. The mom should have to pay as well but she hasn't been involved in years and it gets slapped through domestics like child support. The lawyer yesterday stated that this was the only recommendation so chances are high the judge will sentence him to this program. Soon to be Step son will be 18 in Jan but if placed in this program he can be there until age 21 and we will have to pay until then.
Thanks for any advice. I understand you should invite everyone that had gotten a Save the Date, but what do you do if you just can't do it? How do you explain it to them when some are expecting the invite and are excited to be at the wedding.