Hi all! This is my first post, but I just really want to know if my gut is right on this one!
I received an invite to a bridal shower yesterday for an old college friend. I've already RSVP'd no to the bachelorette party and the wedding, and was planning on sending a small gift as congratulations since I couldn't make it.
Until I got this invitation. Not only are her registries listed on the invite, but there is also an address listed for "those who are planning to mail a gift." My brain immediately exploded a little. It felt really gift-grabby, and now I'm thinking just a card sent after the wedding is all I'll do.
I guess my question is, am I right on this one? Is this completely inappropriate? Since I'm planning my own wedding right now I tend to analyze other people's invites (and these boards!) for ideas on what to do and what not to do. Any insight would be helpful! Thanks guys!